Visiting an elderly relative in an assisted living community can be a fulfilling and heartwarming experience. Your presence can make a significant difference in their day, providing comfort and joy. Here are some tips to help you make the most of your visit, ensuring that your time together is meaningful and enjoyable.

Planning Ahead

Before your visit, do some research online or by calling the facility they live in. You will want to find out what the visiting hours are, whether they have common areas for friends and family to spend time with residents, and what amenities or events they have scheduled. You should also find out if you will have to sign in upon arrival, if certain items or activities are prohibited at the facility, and if they have any restrictions on the number of visitors.

Find Meaningful Activities

While you don’t have to plan every minute of your visit, it may help to have some planned ideas. Find meaningful activities that your relative will enjoy. This could include looking through old photo albums, watching a favorite movie, playing a board game, sitting outside, or simply having a chat over a cup of tea or coffee. Also, check if the facility will be hosting activities that your relative is looking forward to. You may be able to join in on the activity with them or make sure you don’t take them away from an event they were looking forward to.

Be Patient and Present

Be patient and present during your visit. Your relative may move or speak more slowly than you’re used to. Give them your full attention, show empathy, and be understanding of their needs and limitations. Your patience and presence can provide immense comfort and reassurance.

Plan Future Visits and Stay in Touch

Before leaving, discuss and plan future visits. Knowing when they will see you next can give your relative something to look forward to and help maintain a sense of connection. Regular visits, even if they are short, can greatly enhance their emotional well-being. Between visits, stay in touch through phone calls, video chats, or letters to help your relative feel connected to you.

Stay Connected With Your Relatives at Twin Town Villa

At Twin Town Villa, we offer a wide range of activities that help our residents and loved ones say engaged and connected. Contact us online or call us at 218-643-9542 to schedule a tour of the community, learn more about our event and activities, or ask questions.